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Meeting & Dating Dominican Women in 2021 – 13 Dating Tips

by The Masculine Traveler
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Dominican women are some of the most beautiful, sexy, and vibrant in Latin America. Their mixed-race, long dark hair and voluptuous bodies exude unique sexuality. I have had four amazing trips to the Dominican Republic over the past 2 years and I am never disappointed with my experiences with Dominican women. Things have definitely changed a bit with the pandemic but there are still great ways to meet them in many places.

Before we discuss dating tips, let’s further our discussion on the physical and personality traits of Dominican girls.

The looks of Dominican women

Dominican Women: 13 Dating Tips (2019)

Generally, Dominican girls are darker than the Latinas in countries like Colombia, Peru, and Mexico. They are also darker on average than Cuban girls. However, Dominicans are a very diverse group physically. Among the women of the Dominican Republic, there is a wide variety of looks. In fact, they come in all shapes in sizes. It is quite common to see light-skinned, dark-skinned and a mixture of complexions. However, the commonality that exists in all of them is a great body. The women in Santiago seem to have lighter skin than those living in Santo Domingo. They remind me a bit of girls from Medellin in terms of complexion.

Be prepared that they develop curvy bodies at a young age. This early physical development can get men in trouble. Always verify that a girl is at least 18 years of age before you begin dating her. Many men in the Dominican Republic have had sexual relations with women under the legal age of consent and were in fact misled by the girls. When in doubt, verify that she is of legal age.

Dominican women are very proud of their bodies. They love wearing tiny clothing that barely covers their curves. Their faces are cute in general; some describe them as “baby faces”. However, their faces are not quite as pretty as Colombian or Brazilian women.


Personalities of Dominican women

 One of the most important aspects in understanding the personalities of Dominican women is knowing how important social status is to them. Despite being a racially diverse country, Dominicans are acutely aware of their skin tone. Skin tone is often related to social class. Lighter-skinned Dominicans often occupy the highest levels of society. Conversely, poorer Dominicans have darker skin. There are exceptions of course, but this is the general socio-economic trend.

Women from the upper class tend to be more well-traveled, drive fancy cars and have the same luxury items as Americans. Unfortunately, they are more stuck-up and arrogant. Girls of lower economic means tend to be more laid back and approachable.  They are also much more eager to meet men from abroad.

As status is very important to Dominican girls, so is their social media personas. There has been an explosion over the past 5 years of women glued to their Smartphones and Instagram. They invest a lot of time in creating the impression that they are living above their means and have a fantastic lifestyle.

Not all of their personality traits are negative. Dominican women are fun-loving, spontaneous, and social. They have relaxed and personable dispositions. Furthermore, Dominican girls are some of the most family-oriented women. They spend considerable time with their families. It is common for them to reserve all of Sunday for attending church, eating a big lunch, and going for walks with their family.


Dating Tips for Dominican Women:

1. Don’t Over-Game

There is a natural flow between women and men in the Dominican Republic. Women maintain a feminine nature and men are expected to act masculine. PUA gimmicks, scripts, and routines will be overkill. Dominican women respond to a fit, well-dressed, masculine man who is not shy about his sexual and romantic intentions.


2. Use an app or site if you’re Spanish isn’t great 

For longer stays, I advise investing time in meeting women through Daygame and Night game. However, many of our readers will have limited time in the Dominican Republic or they’re trying to meet Dominican women in their hometowns. For short stays, online dating will be the most efficient way to meet sexy local girls.

Meeting Dominican women online is the easiest way to hook up when you have limited time in this country. The girls are aggressive and will be very eager to meet you. However, note that they will be corresponding with several men at the same time.

There are a couple of options that you’re going to want to try first, both in the Dominican Republic and if you live in a city with any kind of English-speaking population:

If you just want a hookup you should start with Adult FriendFinder

The best option for finding something casual right now has been Adult FriendFinder. This is the only option we’ve found the works consistently for guy, even if you’re not really good looking. It has the largest number of people using it (over 70 million active users) and is really focused on casual fun, not relationships.

What we really like about it is that not only does it work in the Dominican Republic, it’s worked really well for us in just about every city that has an English-speaking population of any size. We’ve used it all over the world when we’re tired of going out and just want to find some fun without the hassles.

Check out their free trial here and see what’s available near you for free.

When you’re after a relationship Dominican Cupid is great

It is very normal to have sex on the first date with women you meet online. I strongly advise signing up for Dominican Cupid and start messaging girls prior to your trip. Exchange WhatsApp numbers and start chatting, voice messaging and changing pictures.

Be cautious of any women who mention money or financial problems. Some Dominican women are just looking for a payday. Proceed with due diligence in screening these types of women out.

Never send a girl money.

Some will ask for you to pay for their taxi. This is a personal choice, but it is advisable to do so if you sense she has a genuine interest in getting to know you.

Some Dominican women will come directly to your hotel on the first date. This does not imply they are prostitutes. Again, do a screening to make sure. Some girls will meet you in this manner, particularly if you are staying at a nice hotel with a pool.

3. Escalate quickly

There is no need for a long courting process in Dominican culture. Sex is a natural process that women are not ashamed to enjoy.


4. Foreigner Status is high

Dominican women, just like Mexican women, would love nothing more than to date and marry a high valued Gringo.Your status as a foreigner or Gringo will be higher in the Dominican Republic than any other country within the region. 

Abundance mentality will be your friend as you will have a surplus of dating options. Most men will have more options with local women than they will know what to do with. Managing your dating schedule will be some real first-world problems!


5. Chose the right city and logistics

If your primary goal is meeting beautiful Dominican women, then following these guides for selecting the proper city:


Santo Domingo

A rule of thumb in the Dominican Republic is the more touristy a city, the less opportunity for meeting hot, eager local Dominican Women where your foreigner status will be in demand.

Dominican Women: 13 Dating Tips (2019)



6. Dress and appearance

Dominican men are handsome and in good shape. Women respond best to a fit man with a clean, crisp look. Look and act the part.

Not all Dominican women are gold diggers but they do appreciate a man with means. Display your success through a stylish wardrobe.

7. Learn Spanish

A basic ability to speak Spanish goes a long way in the Dominican Republic. The Dominican accent is a difficult one to understand and takes some time getting used to. Most Dominican women do not speak English.

However, with a little practice using Pimsleur Spanish, you will be in a solid position to have basic communication to open women, set up dates, arrange logistics, and engage in basic conversation.

Dominican Women: 13 Dating Tips (2019)


8. Understand what they are looking for in men

Despite their reputation for being easy, most Dominican women are looking for long-term relationships. They want marriage and families at some point. Their taste in men seems to be contradictory.

On one hand, they seek men who earn a good living and will be able to support them financially. They prefer men who have stable jobs, drive nice cars, and are able to take them out for fancy evenings. Stability is valued in a relatively unstable country. Conversely, they are attracted to bad boys with tattoos, piercings, and criminal-like behavior.

On the surface, their preferences seem to be hypocritical. However, the common thread is that they like strong, decisive men.


9. Keep your options open

There are so many dating options on this small island. Most men have a plethora of options on Dominican Cupid that their dating life consumes them. Do not fall for the first women you hook-up with. Take your time and choose the right girl according to your preferences.

Remember, attractive girls have many options. Don’t delude yourself that you are the only Gringo she is messaging on WhatsApp. The odds suggest that there many men in the mix.

Finding a loyal girl in the Dominican Republic is a chief challenge. Dominican culture is strongly influenced by infidelity. Both men and women cheat. Do not commit emotionally to a Dominican woman until you have found the right combination of looks, brains and loyalty.

Dominican Women: 13 Dating Tips (2019)


10. Expand your social circle.

If you are on a short stay, your time should be devoted to pipelining and setting up dates with cute girls. However, if you are living on the island, focus on developing a solid social circle. Dominicans are very social people. Just making one or two friends can have an expansive effect on your social life.

Dominican people will go out of their way to introduce to their friends and family. They will also make introductions to single women. Investing time in developing a strong social circle is well worth it.


11. Nightlife

If your main method of pick-up is through Night game, then you will be disappointed. Night game is disappointing not because of a lack of talent, but because most girls hit nightclubs in groups.

Separating a Dominican girl from a group at a club is not easily done. Therefore, Online dating, social circle, and Day game are the best methods for meeting Dominican women.


12. Day game

Meeting women during the day is very effective in the Dominican Republic. However, it is important to understand that street approaches like London style Day game will not be productive.  The heat and lack of volume on the streets rule out these types of approaches.

Day game in the Dominican Republic takes a different form than in Europe. Most women get around by car, bus, or taxi. There aren’t pedestrian streets or metros with voluminous women outside metro stations like in Europe. The best approach to meet women are in gyms, cafes, supermarkets, and malls are solid places to meet girls. Be direct, friendly, and make strong eye contact. Dominican women love to stare into a man’s eyes. Additionally, Spanish is always helpful in meeting women during the day.

Keep in mind, you have a distinct advantage of being a foreigner. Girls will have a natural curiosity about you. Take advantage of this position and seize the opportunities as they unfold in your daily life.


13. Spotting Gold-diggers

As previously discussed, money and social status are very important in the Dominican Republic. Combine this with open attitudes on sex and you have a perfect storm to create Gold-diggers. Not all women fall into the category of keeping men to financially support their lifestyles. However, there is a notable number of Dominican women who engage in this type of relationship.

The line between being a prostitute and a sugar baby is razor-thin. Some women are very adept at extracting resources from multiple foreigners and convincing these men that they are in a committed relationship.

The following strategies will help you deal screen out Gold-diggers:

  • Date women from upper-classes. These women will not need your financial assistance.
  • Develop a social network of men and women from the upper class and meet women through their introductions.
  • Befriend local Dominican guys who can help you screen women.
  • Do not converse with any girl online who mentions money or financial hardships.
  • Approach women at high-end malls and nightclubs.
  • Rent an apartment in a high-end neighborhood.

Dominican Women: 13 Dating Tips (2019)


Summary of Dominican Women

The Dominican Republic is a beautiful island that has grown in popularity over the past decade. Most vacationers will head to the touristy towns like Punta Cana. I advise to see the real Dominican Republic and to experience the culture and its local beautiful women. Within Latin America, Dominican women are some of the sexiest and friendless in the region. The women personify sexuality.

Your Gringo status will be at its peak. There isn’t an easier place to date and bed women outside of Asia perhaps. With a little preparation of learning Spanish, Pipelining and following this guide, you will be in a proper position for meeting sexy Dominican women.

Start meeting sexy Dominican women on Dominican Cupid.



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Jerry August 3, 2018 - 3:39 PM

What country/city is the best for age difference? Say 60 yo man with a 22 yo women.


The Masculine Traveler August 3, 2018 - 4:31 PM

Probably you’re going to have the most luck in that case in SEA.
There’s a reason why so many men in that age range end up there.

Chris January 31, 2019 - 3:58 AM

If your models depicted in this article are standard women in DR, I would say there is much too much ass for my tastes. Apparently I will have to head further south to find more European influence in the bloodlines. Mahalo for your insight! Much appreciated! If others have seen or not seen this in DR, please comment on this website. Still a while before I travel.

TMT February 13, 2019 - 4:32 PM


For what you describe, check out southern Brazil and Argentina. Feel free to comment on your experiences.

Terry March 3, 2019 - 10:04 AM

Santiago is the best city: nice looking women and very safe. Nice article

Erika April 27, 2019 - 1:54 AM

it looks like you have never been in DR, as a dominican women i could say that most of what you said is not like that…

YaleBeautyDR May 12, 2019 - 8:16 AM

While I find this article to be disgusting and misogynist. He’s right. Not all working class Dominican girls are gold diggers but most are… but it’s because it’s instilled in them. Plus they like “gringos” because they are nurtured to be self hating for being brown. I have Dominican parents, born and raised in the US so I’m nothing like this but I’ve heard of it. You see lots of old old Canadian men married to 18 year olds. Oh well. It is what it is! Whatever makes souls happy!

Javier August 4, 2019 - 8:55 AM

If you can survive the bad booze, DR is a great place.

John August 28, 2019 - 12:53 PM

Dominican Cupid appears to be a scam site. I signed up and it immediately said my account was suspended. Wanted me to upload a picture of my driver’s license ????????????

TMT September 1, 2019 - 2:31 PM

That is surprising. Several of our writers have used Dominican Cupid. and have never had this issue. The site is definitely not a scam. There are thousands of legit profiles. You should contact Cupid Media to explain your situation.

Bill September 8, 2019 - 10:10 PM


I looking for a way to impress the dominican women. I’m the co-owner of a small restaurant. Should I tell the Ladies that I’m a sucessfull businessmen? What should I look like to convey this?
Is there any stereotype which I can use?
I just want to woman think, “wow, what a specimen of a man. I’ve luck to met him here”. You know that special view from the eye.

Could you please help me?

TMT September 15, 2019 - 7:38 AM


It seems rather simple… just tell women the truth…you own a restaurant and have a partner. Success is something women will pick up without you having to spell out for them. Have a great time in DR.

Charli October 12, 2019 - 4:43 PM

Could you give me a info: What is the best way for a “happy end” after a date?
Do you have any experience?

I’d like to go to dominica for a week or so and think I should have some fun.

Rosangel Báez September 30, 2019 - 4:30 AM

Hi, Very interesting article but… Yes there are some informations who does not correspond, specially the relation that you state with the social status and the skin color. Second, The major of woman that uses sites are woman who does not possess a higher education and not good jobs and some cases unemployed who are looking to get a better life outside of the country. A woman who is beautiful and has a good job will not have the necessity to use any site, so I can strongly say that if someone wants to meet a woman who is not expecting to get money from you, use others ways to meet them, seminars, congresses which are very popular in hotels, universities, etc. Of course if you just want to come and have fun, then use the site. Att a proud and hard working Dominican girl.

TMT October 8, 2019 - 3:53 AM

Thanks for the comment. DR is a great place to have fun. There are some good girls be found if you have enough time in the country-we have found some that there are some sweet, educated women. If you can stay long-term in DR, you should be able to meet them. Like any country, shower stays will limit your option, in all likelihood.


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