Filipina women have a reputation for providing men with unique dating opportunities, all but absent in their home countries. For many men, the Philippines represents a second chance to date a variety of young, feminine and cute women. This southeast Asian country symbolizes the fountain of youth for older men who seek younger companions for sex and relationships. However, the appeal to Filipina women is not just relegated for older men. Younger men are known to travel to the Philippines in search of exciting sexual conquests with the local women. Many of these men boast about a “rock star effect” with Filipina women.
It seems as though this country has an allure for all men. Southeast Asian girls are more feminine and sweeter than western women in general. Western countries have become a sexual purgatory for many men. However, does the hype match up with the reality of Filipina women.
I recently completed a long stay in this tropical country. This article will provide you with the latest assessment of dating Filipina women based on my recent experience. From this analysis, I will provide insight into whether reality matches the myth.
Let’s commence our discussion on the physical traits of Filipina women.
The Beauty of Filipina Women
The looks of Filipina girls vary considerably. It is easy to categorize them as the standard Asian issue women that you meet in the West. However, it is important to understand how history has influenced the genetical pool in the Philippines. Spanish and American influence have been strong in the Philippines. Men from these counties have left their genetic imprint on this nation of tropical islands.
In fact, I regard Filipina women as the Latinas of Asia. Filipina women have assumed some of the physical traits from the Spanish including a tan complexion and curvy bodies. The asses on average are fuller and bigger compared with other Asian women like Vietnamese.
There is no one size fits all in the Philippines. Filipinas also referred to as Pinays, have different looks depending on the region. In the northern region such as in Manila, the women are lighter in complexion and tend to be taller. Further south in cities like Davao, girls are shorter and darker in skin tone. A general appraisal of Filipina women would be petite but curvy women with a tan complexion.
The average Filipina will not be stunning. In fact, most Filipina women are average to below average in physical appearance. However, what sets the Philippines apart is the sheer volume of cute, young, feminine women.
Personality traits of Filipina women
Why do some many men retirees relocate to the Philippines?
Besides having a plethora of cute women, the personalities of the local women are the true magnet. Men coming from western nations, relish in a culture that respects traditional male and females roles. Filipinas embody the feminine qualities that our forefathers took for granted. They are highly nurturing for starters. There is a reason that some many Filipina women choose nursing as a profession. Filipina women take a natural role in caring and looking after others. They do it with such nonchalance that appears endemic to their disposition.
Filipinas have a strong work ethic. They study and work hard. However, their true commitment is to their family. Even after working long days, they always have fuel in the tank to be loyal and committed mothers, wives and daughters.
Second to their humble and nurturing personality is the ease of communication. All Filipinos speak at least basic English. Men who have been in the international dating game know that the most prominent barrier to a relationship with foreign women is communication. Unlike Russian women for instance, it will be easy to communicate with Filipinas.
English mastery is half the battle in developing a rapport and comfort with women abroad. English speaking levels will vary. The upper class speaks English like Americans. Nevertheless, almost all Filipinas speak English well enough for solid commutation.
Attitude on sex
The attitude on sex from a Filipina perspective is not easily summarized. The topic of sex in the Philippines is nuanced and complicated. Having spent the past three months in the Philippines, I can assure our readers that the sex life of an expat here is fulfilling as in any country. In my vast word travels, I have not discovered a country where a man can have so much access to sex with cute, feminine women. Nevertheless, sex in the Philippines is not without complications.
Catholic guilts regarding sex is alive and well. Most Filipina girls are raised to be virgins until marriage. Families place a high emphasis on monogamy and traditional family values. Many women indeed to succeed in fulfilling society’s prescription for a moral abstention to premarital sex. However, Filipina women are highly sexual and flirtatious. Despite their Catholic upbringing, they thoroughly enjoy physical pleasures. Their sexual interested seems to peak when they meet a cool foreign man.
The Philippines is full of hypocrisy and paradoxes. Sexual behavior is no exception. Despite being a conservative Catholic country, single men can enjoy a plethora of sexual experiences that can be mind-blowing. One of the chief reasons for this unique access to sexual experiences is the “White God” factors. Our readers have probably heard whispers of this politically incorrect trend in Asia. While most likely decreased from the pinnacle a decade ago, Filipina women do in fact, hold White men to occupy the highest level of the social hierarchy.
Most Filipina women aspire to marry a man of European descent to have Caucasian offspring. This is not the case for every woman, and less prevalent in the upper economic class, but it is a cultural phenomenon.
Although I didn’t directly witness it, competition in the Philippines has increased over the past few years. More and more older men with resources are flocking to this country for greener pastures. Younger men are also coming in droves to experience the “rock star effect.” The increase in foreign attention has influenced the sexual marketplace. Men can no longer expect to seduce cute women easily with just their passport as sexual market place currency. Younger men are at an advantage in the nightclub scene. However, Filipinas are wise to their intentions. Many women exercise caution and actually prefer older men, who are more likely to provide a stable long-term relationship.
Most Filipina women have marital intentions, thus develop a preference for older men. Money does play a role in their intentions. The Philippines is a poor country where there is a large disparity between the rich and poor. Seeking an older, financially sound man for a relationship is a practical choice.
Prior to my visit to the Philippines, I thought that the Dominican Republic was the undisputed king for meeting women online with ease. However, I soon learned about the countless opportunities to meet cute, sweet, friendly girls in the Philippines is staggering. As with all international online dating, selecting the right dating app is of critical consequence. Men need to be wary of online scams, fake profiles, and good old fashion gold-diggers.
Fortunately, I came across Filipino Cupid, which is the most reputable site for meeting Filipina women online. Filipina Cupid boasts over 2 million female users. Filipina women join Filipino Cupid almost exclusively to meet foreign men. There is an excess of sweet, young, attractive women. It is the only dating website that I have actually received more messages from women then I sent out. It is feasible to set up 2-3 dates per day if one wishes. In addition, to being a great site for casual hook-ups, there are also many women who seek marriage.
Meeting Filipina Women During the Day
A close second to using Filipina Cupid would be Daygame. Women during the day are cheerful, friendly and approachable. This is the best way to meet normal Filipina women who are not vested in online dating. Expect a Filipina girl to be initially shy and awkward when you first approach her.
However, don’t let her timidity dissuade you from continuing the chat. Meeting strangers during the day is not normal in the Philippines. However shy she appears, always take her phone number. More times than not, she will warm up over texting.
Pro tip: Do not inject the topic of sex early on. Filipina women are sexual but shy at first. Over-sexualizing the conversation will likely scare her off. Save the sex talk until after you have sexually consummated the relationship.
Meeting women at nightclubs is a mixed bag. As I stated previously younger men tend to do best with Night game. Older men should stick with Daygame and online dating. There are a lot of hookers and professional gold-diggers in nightclubs. To run effective night game in the Philippines, men will need a social circle to prove legitimacy to upper-class women.
There is also a big learning curve on discovering which venues will have normal women and the best nights for going. This will take significant time in the country to run optimal night game for shorter stays, I advise sticking with Filipina Cupid, Daygame and reserving nights for dates.
As previously discussed, the Philippines has a high poverty level. Even educated, hard-working Filipinas struggle economically. Be on guard for women who ask directly for money. Astute women often ask indirectly through appealing to your empathy and generosity.
Some women will attempt to extract money from foreigners under the disguise of helping her sick relative. Men need to be prudent and exercise sound judgment. There is often a thin line between generosity and being taken advantage of. A small percentage of Filipinas have nefarious intentions, but they do exist.
The Best Cities for Meeting Filipina Women
The Philippines is a beautiful country with over 7,000 islands. Exploring the remote and off-the-beaten islands with a girlfriend is an amazing experience. Before you arrive at that point, you will want to concentrate your efforts in on the following three cities:
Manila The capital city is not only the logistical starting point to visit the Philippines, but it will provide you with access to the most beautiful women in the country. Women from all over the country come to Manila to work and study. Some of the upper-class neighborhoods like Makati will provide sound logistics for meeting women at malls, nightclubs and scheduling dates.
Cebu is more navigable than Manilla and less of a hustle and bustle life. The women on average will not be as cute, but there are vast opportunities to meet women in Cebu, particularly on Filipino Cupid. Older men seem to do very well in Cebu.
Davao Further south in the country, women are more conservative. Davao is a solid city to stay for long periods of time, especially if you are looking for a long-term relationship. The women in Davao are less interested in casual hook-ups, preferring long-term relationships.
My time spent in the Philippines has reaffirmed the notion that Filipinas are some of the most beautiful women in Asia. In addition, to their sweet and feminine dispositions, Filipinas have an exotic mix of Asian and Spanish blood. They have an interesting mix of sexual conservatism combined with an exceedingly higher interest in dating foreign men. The good times are certainly not over, despite the increased competition. It is still one of the easiest places to meet beautiful, sweet, and nurturing women who are suited for long-term relationships.
The Philippines has something to offer for every man. For the young player, a varied sex life is at his disposal. Older men have a second chance in life to connect with a younger, more nurturing woman to serve as a quality partner. Finally, online dating with Filipino Cupid is an essential tool that all men must try. Due to the sheer volume and quality of the women online who are eager to meet foreigners.
In short, the Philippines has become more competitive, but my experience taught me that reality still comes very close to matching the myth.
What are your thoughts and experiences with the women of the Philipines? Let us know in the comments below.
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